Mon, 06/30/2008 - 11:04am - Posted by: Anonymous

its almost been 3 wks. i didnt know matt tht good nd regret it nd b4 the accident i thought i would know him better by goin 2 youth group but its just as hard i miss you nd love ya. i will never forget you nd hope i will see u soon. but my prayers go out 2 everyone.

Sat, 06/21/2008 - 3:09am - Posted by: Anonymous

matt was a very kind kid, he never talked bad about anyone.
he was a christian, played by god's rules.
this man should stay in jail for the rest of his life, with NO bail, i'm sorry.
he didn't deserve this.
my heart goes out to his faimly, and the rest of his friends and out to his girlfriend.

matt we love && miss you.

-brady.

Thu, 06/19/2008 - 2:15pm - Posted by: Anonymous

Matthew Tozer was an amazing person. He was always smiling and having fun. One time I was at Alternate Destination, and so was he. For once he wasn't fixing anything, and he was just relaxing. Him, James, Mike, and I decided to play monopoly, we had a lot of fun actually. He came in third, and when I saw him in school sometimes I would joke around with him saying You suck at monopoly, and he would just laugh and say you lost to. I really wish we did get to know him a little better though. He seemed like a lot of fun to hang around. He was always willing to help anyone who needed it, and would always try to figure out what is wrong with someone so he could cheer then up. We all miss him and He will always be remembered. God needed him, Matt did what he needed to do here, and he was needed up there. He will always be looking down on us. He will always be in our hearts. My prayers go out to the friends and family of Matthew Ryan Tozer, May he Rest In Peace, we will all see him soon enough.

-Vicki

a million times i miss you

a millions times i shall cry

if love alone could have saved you

you would have never died

in life i love you dearly

in death i love you still

in my heart you hold a place no other one can fill

the golden gates stood open

god saw you needed rest

he took you to a life

of peace and happiness.

-For Matt Tozer

-By Cole Accardi

Sun, 06/15/2008 - 4:04pm - Posted by: Anonymous

I DIDINT KNOW MATTHEW PERSONALLY BUT TO ME HE SOUNDED LIKE AN ANGEL THAT NOONE REALIZED HE MADE SO MANY HAPPY, COMFORTABLE AND WELCOMED. YES HE WAS A YOUNG MAN WHO DIDNT DESERVE TO PASS THE WAY HE DID HOWEVER JESUS GAVE HIM A JOB TO DO AND IT WAS ACCOMPLISHED IN 16 YEARS. FROM LISTENING TO HIS FRIENDS I WOULD HAVE THOUGHT THIS KID WOULD HAVE ONE DAY BEEN A PASTOR.HIS PASSION SEEMED TO LOVE ALL THOSE THAT CAME IN CONTACT WITH HIM. I WISH THE FAMILY WELL AND AS EACH DAY GOES BY DONT WONDER ABOUT THE SHOULD HAVE COULD HAVE BUT THE MEMEMORIES OF THE 16 GREAT YEARS YOU GOT TO HAVE. GOD BLESS YOU

Sat, 06/14/2008 - 11:50pm - Posted by: Anonymous

tech is a ghosttown without you
we miss you mattttt

Sat, 06/14/2008 - 8:46pm - Posted by: Anonymous

I never got the chance to met you in person Matt, now i never will. We have a fund for him going on he is the link to any one that can donate www.mopedarmy.com
i

Sat, 06/14/2008 - 7:02pm - Posted by: Anonymous

I was totally in aw at the funeral today. I was amazed at all the people Matthew touched in his 16 years. His parents not shedding a tear and his mom even being able to speak to everyone without breaking down. It stuns me that they are not angry ,but then again, that is what JESUS teaches. They are the true meaning of a christian and it was passed down to Matthew that is evident. May GOD BLESS you and COMFORT you through this the rest of your days.

Sat, 06/14/2008 - 3:44pm - Posted by: Anonymous

My prayers and thoughts are with the Tozer family as they grieve this lost. Being at the service today was inspirational. Hearing Linda speak of not having bitterness against the driver of the car and that his family and he are having to come to term with taking Matt's life was incrediable - a true example of Christianity. Then hearing all the comments of Matt's friends, acquaintances, teachers and family, showed that this was a remarkable young man. May God continue to comfort all those hurting right now and may something good come from this so that his death like his life is not in vain.

May

Sat, 06/14/2008 - 11:22am - Posted by: Anonymous

I knew Matt. He was a sweet, kindhearted boy with his whole life ahead of him. The useless drunk should do the honorable thing and avoid putting Matt's friends and family through anymore pain and suffering. Matt will be placed in the ground today and none of us who knew him will ever get to see him grow up, get married, have children or ever see his best friend again. I am so sorry for all of Matt's friends and family. This is a tragedy of epic proportions which could have been avoided. Another life ruined by a waste-of-space-drunk.

Fri, 06/13/2008 - 12:15pm - Posted by: Anonymous

What a cruel thing and Again why is it always the drunk that survives and not the un drunk that get's killed. And the drunk survives but not the person who got hit.

Thu, 06/12/2008 - 1:35pm - Posted by: Anonymous

First, let me put the jerks who said that this in anyway could have been Matt's fault by playing chicken, in their place. Since it happened in front of my house I can tell you that this was in no way Matt's fault. There was a woman who had been driving in front of Mr. Nailie from the start of Route 83. She herself was afraid of this driver because he had been weaving in and out of the lane behind her. He even hit a curb a few minutes before he hit Matt. Matt was following all the rules when this drunk driver swerved into Matt's lane hitting him head on. Matt didn't even have a chance to move. I doubt he even saw it coming. I don't know if the drunk is or isn't diabetic, but I can tell you this man WAS DRUNK, and it wasn't diabetes that caused this tragedy. So a-holes, next time you want to post a comment get your facts straight. Mr. Nailie should be locked up for the rest of his life. And, yes mopeds should be allowed on the roads. This is how a majority of teens get to and from work. Maybe you should care more about getting drunks off the road instead of worrying about responsible teens on mopeds. I didn't know Matt, but to his family my heart & prayers go out to you.

Thu, 06/12/2008 - 11:19am - Posted by: Anonymous

i knew matt really well for 4 years know i cant bealeve hes gone im sorry i couldnt make this long its just i have nuthing to say cause i still cant belevie hes gone. that kid stayed my boy even when i dissapeird and only talked to him through myspace. what i have to say is it is gods plan and i understand that but i still would have liked to get to see him aigan i was supose to chill with him this weekend and talk to him. it just come to show youy life is short. my condolences and my hole heart gose to the tozer family and amanda and all his freinds like me.
R.I.P MATT TOZER

tony

Thu, 06/12/2008 - 11:00am - Posted by: Anonymous

people that drive drunk should be shot,Its stupid and reckless and in this case cost somebody his life.

Thu, 06/12/2008 - 10:28am - Posted by: Anonymous

Mr. and Mrs. Tozer and family,
It has taken me a few days to get my thoughts together, but I know at a time like this it helps to know others are with you. I did not know Matt, but I am just sick about this senseless tragedy. Your family is in my prayers.
The girl on the bike

Thu, 06/12/2008 - 9:07am - Posted by: Anonymous

I knew Matt from work and though he wasn't there long he still became part of our small family there. He was a good worker and a sweet young man who could of gone far. But now he is no longer in pain and with Jesus now. Looking down at us all.

Tozer Family May God bless you and help you through this tragedy.

Thu, 06/12/2008 - 8:25am - Posted by: Anonymous

Linda,
Your words here are an inspiring example of God's grace and peace. It is not a surprise that Matt illuminated so many lives around him. You and Roger are great parents who raised three kind, loving and Godly children. My heart is broken and my family and I are praying for comfort in your time of mourning.

Thu, 06/12/2008 - 12:48am - Posted by: Anonymous

I am a friend of Crystal's from an online Christian women's group. Please know that your precious family is in my prayers. There are women all over the world praying for your family right now. May Christ's love surround you and his people love and hold you up during this difficult time.

Wed, 06/11/2008 - 11:20pm - Posted by: Anonymous

I didn't know Matt personally but I wanted to express my deepest sympathies to the entire Tozer family and Matt's friends. My cousin actually passed Matt a few minutes/seconds earlier on his motorcycle and he said that Matt was driving in a safe manner, he heard the accident & turned around and went back to the scene. It is a shame that so many people are being killed my scum that drink & drive. When are the rules going to change and be more strict about drinking & driving, especially when a homicide is involved. And to the family please find out where Mr Nailie was drinking at because they can also be held liable for allowing him to leave & drive while intoxicated.

Wed, 06/11/2008 - 11:16pm - Posted by: Anonymous

To the Tozer family. I can't imagine your pain but I know your faith will see you through. You know our Lord Jesus Christ has a master plan for each and every one of us and though it is hard to understand what that might be right now, someday you will know and rejoice. Our children are a gift fom god, intrusted to us for a short while for a specific purpose and only our Lord knows what that purpose is. Matthew's purpose was fulfilled here on earth and I am sure that Jesus is smiling with the way his gift was returned. You taught Matthew to love, to praise Jesus, to be kind and to impact other people with his life. Celebrate his life and be happy for him. Remember, it's not the date you were born, it's not the date when you die, it's what you did with your dash. He will be remembered in our memories and felt in our hearts forever. God comfort you all during this sad time. We are so sorry for your loss ~The Mills Family~ 3 Amber Jack Road

Wed, 06/11/2008 - 10:09pm - Posted by: Anonymous

I just spent the evening with the lighthouse youth group...all friends of Matt & Amanda's. What a great bunch of kids in todays world. Keep sharing Matts memories and remembering the good times you had together with Matt. Also keep praying for each other, the Tozerfamily, the driver and his family. Only God will bring true healing of all our broken hearts.

Wed, 06/11/2008 - 9:56pm - Posted by: Anonymous

To the Know it all the posted first that mopeds play chicken with cars and don't belong on our roads. Do you think that intoxicated drivers belong on our roadways playing chicken with our innocent children? and second If that POS Mr. Natle was in fact a diabetic as you claimed why did he go exactly where he belonged to the Cape May County Jail? Maybe next time you will get all of your facts straight before you look like a jack@%& in front of the whole countny.

Wed, 06/11/2008 - 9:54pm - Posted by: Anonymous

heyy,

i didnt personaly know Matt but i always heard of how he was such a good kid. He went to school with my older brother i think they knew each other. my prayers go out to the tozer family and Matt. I wish we could go back and prevent this from happening.
An innocent kid should not be killed by a guy who should have been old enough to know that he shouldnt e drinking and driving. Matt has barely been able to live out his life but the rest of his life has been taking away by a guy who has lived through everything.
Now because of this one man's choice to drink and drive, a young teenager has the memories of his best friend being hit, a family is put through unneccasary pain and agony, and friends through grief and sorrow.

You have my prayers and i hope we all can make it through this tragic moment in time
-Adam H-

Wed, 06/11/2008 - 7:56pm - Posted by: Anonymous

Matt was a friend of mine. He was shy, but we always talked. He was such a good guy, and he always put god first. And at tabernacle we'd always play ping pong together haha. And when i'd do something crazy or stupid, first he would give me this look like "what are you doing?" but then he would flash that sweet smile. he was amazing, and i'll never forget him.
Gods lucky to have you with him matt.
I miss you so much already.
-- Miranda L.

Wed, 06/11/2008 - 7:36pm - Posted by: Anonymous

Matt was the best person in the world! I barly knew him but he was a good friend to every one.

Wed, 06/11/2008 - 5:34pm - Posted by: Anonymous

Our thoughts and prayers go out to the Tozer family for their tragic loss. Through your faith may you find comfort and peace knowing Matthew is iwith his savior and rejoicing with the angles in heaven. The Staff at COUNTRY PLAYHOUSE CHILDCARE CENTER

Wed, 06/11/2008 - 5:19pm - Posted by: Anonymous

Linda, Rodger and family. My prayers are with you. May our God comfort you all during this time. May He give you His peace, that passes all understanding. It is wonderful to know that Matthew was loved by so many people. He was a blessing to you and to so many others. Until we see him once again...our hope...our trust...our faith....in God's promises....Love you all, Debbee Wood

Wed, 06/11/2008 - 4:01pm - Posted by: Anonymous

I am the mother of Matt Tozer. I am surprised and humbled by all the comments made about his accident. I did not realize how many knew him and loved him. I can only hope that through this tragic event on Monday night, that all those on the roads whether moped, bikes, cars, or whatever please just take your time and be careful!!! This is the summer season and we all need to be extra careful on the roads. Be respondsible and don't be distracted by cell phones, or food, or especially alcohol . Thank you for all your prayers, and pray not only for the victim, but for the man who caused this accident and his family. To live with the guilt of killing a 16 year old must be overwhelming to him. Keep posting, and know your comments and prayers mean so very much to us!!!!!!!
Linda, Rodger, Jason and Crystal

Wed, 06/11/2008 - 3:46pm - Posted by: Anonymous

to the person who commented about mopeds not being allowed and the riders playing chicken: you have no idea about who this family is and what they have already been through. I went to school with their oldest daughter from nursery school till graduation and you have NO IDEA how sweet of a family this is!!! They would do anything for anyone. They raised their children in a church and sent them through private school. They have come so far through health problems and through catastrophes, so before you jump to ANY conclusion make sure you step back and take a good hard look at a family who just lost their youngest son and put yourself in their shoes........would you want to hear someone say this about your youngest? think about it.....i know i wouldnt... TO the TOZER family : all of my thoughts and pryaers are with all of you, your family is a huge example of faith and perserverance and trusting in GOD.......

Wed, 06/11/2008 - 3:30pm - Posted by: Anonymous

This is such a tragedy. I went to Tech with Matt, we're in the same grade and even though I hardly knew him, what I did know was that he was a smart and kind kid and didn't deserve what happened to him. If this doesn't make anyone who knew him cry than that is just plain sad.

To his family, best of wishes.

Wed, 06/11/2008 - 2:57pm - Posted by: Anonymous

Dear Tozer family:. This was a terrible shock to hear. I can't imagine your grief at such a horrific thing. And, from what I am reading here, your Matt sounds like a great kid who was loved by his family and by many in his community. God bless you and give you special grace at this time.
Stan

Wed, 06/11/2008 - 2:02pm - Posted by: Anonymous

to whoever posted the comment about how mopeds should not be driving on the public roads, should probably never voice their opinion again. MAYBE, people shouldnt drive while drunk. thats a thought. accidents happen everyday with cars but rarely ever with mopeds. your so quick to put your opinion up about mopeds why dont you have an opinion about the millions of dui's a year. the drunken mess that was driving this car lived, and a 16 year old boy died. is that a fault on the moped or the fact that this man was drunk? pretty sure the man who got behind the wheel of a car while being drunk is at fault, not a 16 year old boy driving his moped. and all you have to say is there shouldnt be mopeds on public roads. you should be ashamed of yourself. theres something wrong with you. you need help.

i dont know matt tozer,
but to his family & friends: im very sorry for your loss.
people like that who make stupid desicions and drive while they are intoxicated should be the ones who lose their lives. its ashame that the people who make the stupid desicion to drink and drive always take an innocent persons life. rip matt.

Wed, 06/11/2008 - 1:56pm - Posted by: Anonymous

Toaster! i miss you so much and love you. I go to school with matt and i knew him before that. he helped with the sound at my church. i always thought he was just qeuit and then i got to know him. He sat at my table at lunch. Everybody loved him, my friends and i to. he was the nicest person i know. he didn't deserve to die like this. he should have been able to grow and get married. he was a really smart and kind kid. I will never forget him. He is in a better place now.

God if u could do me a favor and take care of him
Love you toaster
u will never be forgotten<333

Wed, 06/11/2008 - 1:50pm - Posted by: Anonymous

I'm surprised it took this long for someone to blame the victim. You obviously didn't read that the other guy was DRUNK and hit HIM. This kid was knowledgeable on Mopeds and knew how to ride. Mopeds, Motorcycles, etc. have the right to be on the road. It's us drivers that need to be careful, and oh yeah, not drink and drive!! RIP Matt.

Wed, 06/11/2008 - 1:17pm - Posted by: Anonymous

To the below poster:

It is unfortunate that you believe mopeds do not belong on the roads. I personally believe that drunk drivers in the incorrect lanes do not belong on the roads. The mopeding community prides itself on safety. I wish that the drunk driving community followed the same set of rules.

Wed, 06/11/2008 - 12:19pm - Posted by: Anonymous

to the poster below me from 5:37am, where does a drunk driver being unable to maintain his lane have anything to do with why kids shouldnt be allowed to ride a moped on the road? Is it so drunks can have the right of way when crossing the center line? why dont we outlaw motorcycles too then while were at it?

Matt RIP and Roger and his family my thoughts are with you

Wed, 06/11/2008 - 12:15pm - Posted by: Anonymous

i disagree with the below comment. if you actually read the article you would have seen that it was the fault of the drunk driver going across the road and not the boy who was where he was suppose to be.

Wed, 06/11/2008 - 11:59am - Posted by: Anonymous

It’s really unfortunate that the individual blaming mopeds on roadways for this tragedy missed the true cause of this accident. ARGH! If a drunk driver struck a pedestrian would they have suggested that people not walk along sidewalks or roadways? Of course not! Matt was a responsible teenager and I’m outraged that someone would think this accident was his fault. If ALL drivers would act as responsibly our roadways, then we wouldn’t be morning the loss of loved ones.

Wed, 06/11/2008 - 11:54am - Posted by: Anonymous

This is not about whether mopeds or ATVs should be on the road or not. This is about two families who are going through a very difficult time - one in which lost a loved one due to an alcoholic who was driving under the influence. I do feel for them as my Grandpa is a closet alcoholic and fear that he could be in this situation some day. I pray he isn't .

My heart goes out to the family who lost Matthew. I don't know the family personally, but I do know they are believers and Matthew is not suffering pain and is in God's presence at this very moment. I pray that his family is comforted in this time of physical loss and is hopeful for the future and seeing him in Glory! Blessings upon you all!!!

Wed, 06/11/2008 - 11:47am - Posted by: Anonymous

I have to say YES it is sad what happened to this young man. Everyone says boy, he was 16. Besides that, the picture is a grim reminder of what CAN happen out there. I am sure that he was loved by everyone who knew him. But taking down the picture or cursing people who drink won't bring him back. Always remember the Great times you had with him. Thats where his memory lies. Not in retailiation. If you have any comments regarding what I said. Email me @ hemifast03@comcast.net Subject Line put 16 y/o moped death.

Wed, 06/11/2008 - 11:42am - Posted by: Anonymous

The issue is NOT that Matt was driving a moped on the street, or that the herald posted this article with the picture, or that the bar where Charlies Nailie drank should be responsible. The issue here is that a young innocent boy died to a 62 year olds careless decision to get behind the wheel. Young and old, people today need to think before they get behind the wheel. One drink is one too many.

To Matt's Family, please know we are all praying for you. Matt is in good hands now.

Wed, 06/11/2008 - 11:40am - Posted by: Anonymous

This is such a tragedy. I am sad for Matthew's family and friends. It is unfortunate that we don't treat operating a motor vehicle with more respect and understand our reponsiblities on the road. We can change the course of someone's life with our choices and lack of thought. Why are drunk drivers behind the wheel allowed to kill and they do not have to face the consequences! I am sickened.

Wed, 06/11/2008 - 11:38am - Posted by: Anonymous

This is so messed up. You always here senior citizens trashing teens for their disrespectful attitudes, funky styles of dress and wild behavior.But now look at this. You'd think by the age of 62 a grown man would know better, or at the very least see his car after a night of drinking and think "You know what, this is no longer transportation for me.In my state, it's a murder weapon." But that's just it, he wasn't thinking.He was drinking. Stupid. Just plain stupid.

Matt is and was my best friend's little brother.He was my little brother's age. I can't imagine what his family is going through, his friends.What are they going to do without him in their lives?He was going to be an uncle again.Now there are little ones who may or may not remember their awesome uncle Matt. I've done my crying, now I'm angry.

Wed, 06/11/2008 - 11:19am - Posted by: Anonymous

To the poster who dared to suggest Mopeds shouldnt be allowed on the road....who do you think you are? Does this articicle in ANY way suggest that this was a goof thing? NO! A DRUNK DRIVER was at fault. He did NOTHING WRONG! The moped is not the issue here it is the STUPID MAN who drove Drunk. You should think twice before posting something so ignorant. If anything, people need to be more cautious with them on the road. They have every right.

Wed, 06/11/2008 - 11:14am - Posted by: Anonymous

Wow, that is terrible. A kid partaking in economical and efficient transportation is killed by a much older person, who is supposedly more mature and you try to make it the kid's fault. You are a real piece of work. How about this:
"This is exactly why old people don't belong on public roads. All too often I've come across crashes where old people were driving along and veer out onto the road when a vehicle approaches. If they want to cash their social security checks, let them do it amongst themselves with direct deposit."

God Bless this family as they deal with a tragedy.

Wed, 06/11/2008 - 11:08am - Posted by: Anonymous

Hey Matt. I miss you so much. I still haven't stopped crying on the inside and never will. You were so important to everyone that knew you. I know that you knew God and that you are with him right now. Put in a good word to God for me. I will see you again for sure.
My prayers go out to Mr. and Mrs. Tozer and to his girlfriend.
Miss you so much!!

Wed, 06/11/2008 - 10:58am - Posted by: Anonymous

this artical should be posted...it lets people know that at any age, no matter who you are, drinking and drive is wrong. weither that boy was driving a moped or not, people should watch the road...be aware of the road and whats going on. It allows us to know that even the innocent die from this. my heart goes out to the family and friends of this poor boy, prays are being said for them. only the good die young...remeber that.

Wed, 06/11/2008 - 10:49am - Posted by: Anonymous

The person commenting that it could be the mopeds fault must be related to Chuck Nailie. He is *** ***.

Wed, 06/11/2008 - 10:19am - Posted by: Anonymous

How can you possibly blame an innocent victim for driving on a main road with a moped? Is it not the fault of the drunk driver for making the decision to get into his car and pose a threat to anyone else on the roads? Whether it be a moped, ATV, car, truck etc., drunk drivers do not discriminate. This is a tragedy. When will people learn to make better decisions when it comes to being responsible for their actions and stop driving after they have been drinking? How hard is it to call a friend, a family member, or a cab to take you home?

My prayers are with Matthew and his family & friends.

Wed, 06/11/2008 - 10:02am - Posted by: Anonymous

Wed, 06/11/2008 - 5:37amThis is exactly why mopeds and ATV's don't belong on public roads. All too often I've come across teens riding them along the shoulder and veer out onto the road when a vehicle approaches. If they want to play chicken, let them do it amongst themselves off-road somewhere.

Tue, 06/10/2008 - 3:09pmI've heard the driver wasn't drunk but diabetic.

What a couple of ***!!! Let's exonerate the irresponsible ADULT drunk driver of any wrongdoing, and blame the police of an inept investigation. Only in Cape May County...it's a good thing that I moved out!!!

Wed, 06/11/2008 - 9:11am - Posted by: Anonymous

In the eight months that I've known him, I don't remeber him missing a single youth group meeting. Matt was so good at everything, he was the only one who knew how to work the sound system, he could solve any puzzle you showed him and he beat us in every race we ever had. Including the race to Heaven. Matt deserved to go to Heaven but he didn't deserve to be taken away from us so quickly and tragically. Our only consolation is that he doen't have to be here to see the world get worse.